A week after the trip to the ER to be be told I was dealing with an "atypical migraine", I'm still so easily worn out. I hate this, because I was already dealing with this sort of thing, and now having an added level of "hahahaha nope no energy for you" from my body is bullshit. I feel even more like a Victorian invalid that needs a relaxing trip to the seaside.
I checked with my neurologist's office about getting an appointment with the actual neurologist, not with one of the (very nice) ARNPs who handle my Botox appointments, only to be told that the MD specializes in movement disorders, which means I need to find an actual neurologist and hope they can help me.
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In other news, I am late to the party, but I've discovered Twin Temple, and I'm charmed. They're a satanic doo-wop/country band, and they're so damn good.
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You know what I miss? The weekly gothy stitch & bitch. I miss sitting with a group of my friends, working on assorted projects. The difficulties in restarting that are, of course, finding the time, distance from each other, and transportation for those of us who don't drive and are not nearby. Hell, I'd host, but we don't actually have enough seating. More importantly, no matter what we've tried, Miss Ezerbet No Biting continues to randomly treat the entire house as her litter box, so there's always the faint scent of cat pee. But damn, I miss those sorts of social events.
I checked with my neurologist's office about getting an appointment with the actual neurologist, not with one of the (very nice) ARNPs who handle my Botox appointments, only to be told that the MD specializes in movement disorders, which means I need to find an actual neurologist and hope they can help me.
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In other news, I am late to the party, but I've discovered Twin Temple, and I'm charmed. They're a satanic doo-wop/country band, and they're so damn good.
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You know what I miss? The weekly gothy stitch & bitch. I miss sitting with a group of my friends, working on assorted projects. The difficulties in restarting that are, of course, finding the time, distance from each other, and transportation for those of us who don't drive and are not nearby. Hell, I'd host, but we don't actually have enough seating. More importantly, no matter what we've tried, Miss Ezerbet No Biting continues to randomly treat the entire house as her litter box, so there's always the faint scent of cat pee. But damn, I miss those sorts of social events.
So many things I wanted to do this weekend but didn't/won't get to. But today I spent quality time with my kid, doing some back to school shopping and doing more cooking together (chicken salad and a breakfast casserole), and that's important and good.
Yesterday I took my cousin along to pick up my wine club bottles and finally took advantage of the free glass/tasting perk for the first time. She had a lot of fun and I learned she'd never done that before, so that was also important and good. Also good was my helping her out by fixing/more solidly mounting her bathroom towel bars and rehanging a beloved decorative hook for her. Couldn't help with replacing the scratch-prone plastic mirror built into her medicine cabinet, though.
Yesterday she and I also tried Mom with some other games to try to engage the mind. Sadly, all were busts. Mom couldn't see the colors on the black Qwirkle tiles (cataracts). She didn't remember how to play Rummikub and wasn't really grasping the ideas, plus she was having trouble with colors on those tiles too. Yahtzee didn't engage her enough, so she kept putting her head down. She couldn't grasp/remember the Boggle concept that the letters have to be touching. So we'll stick with Uno and modified (turn-taking) Scrabble Slam, and Candy Land and Chutes and Ladders, with an occasional game of Sorry. The jigsaw puzzles have largely lost her engagement now too.
Yesterday I took my cousin along to pick up my wine club bottles and finally took advantage of the free glass/tasting perk for the first time. She had a lot of fun and I learned she'd never done that before, so that was also important and good. Also good was my helping her out by fixing/more solidly mounting her bathroom towel bars and rehanging a beloved decorative hook for her. Couldn't help with replacing the scratch-prone plastic mirror built into her medicine cabinet, though.
Yesterday she and I also tried Mom with some other games to try to engage the mind. Sadly, all were busts. Mom couldn't see the colors on the black Qwirkle tiles (cataracts). She didn't remember how to play Rummikub and wasn't really grasping the ideas, plus she was having trouble with colors on those tiles too. Yahtzee didn't engage her enough, so she kept putting her head down. She couldn't grasp/remember the Boggle concept that the letters have to be touching. So we'll stick with Uno and modified (turn-taking) Scrabble Slam, and Candy Land and Chutes and Ladders, with an occasional game of Sorry. The jigsaw puzzles have largely lost her engagement now too.
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The orange turd can try, but he'll never turn my HOMES into SHAME.
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Spent about 3x as long on my car today as I'd hoped. The glove box removal was not nearly so easy as the videos had led me to believe. I finally got it out and swapped the motor on the recirc flap, verified it worked and then tried to put it together again. Couldn't get the long tongue threaded back though the center console closeout panels. Finally found another video with my exact model of dashboard (just right hand drive) and had to take out 5 more things. Tested again before buttoning back up, and it stuck again. New motor doing the same as the old, so there's probably an issue with the car. Took the old motor housing apart, but all looked fine inside. Tried both, and they would work a few times, then get stuck, but would sometimes move if I added a little starting torque with my hand. Finally gave up, manually moved the diverter to fresh air, and put the old motor back in, but unconnected so it can't get itself stuck in recirc again when I put it on full defrost.
Then, at some point in the several times I tried to get the glove box in and out, I discovered that instead of pulling the electrical connector off my tire pressure monitoring reset switch, I pulled the whole back off, and lost the spring inside. Spent a while trying to find that and determine how quick I could get another switch, but then I learned that the switch for turning off my traction control is basically the same model, and I use that very rarely. So I pulled it out (was in an already-removed panel), got the spring out, which was actually a rubber button type of spring with little hard bits to make a momentary contact on the tiny circuit board in the back of the switch. Got the tire pressure switch rebuilt, and then promptly found its spring on the garage floor. -_- Put it in the traction control switch, so they're both good again, though the tire pressure one might try to pop out the back of the glove box again.
Put the glove box back again, took a couple minutes to clean up the grotty bits of center console that I'd disassembled, and got everything put back together. Then realized I had 3 screws left and panicked for a minute. Finally realized I'd missed one inside the glove box, and forgotten to screw down one of the console pieces, so had to take a couple things back apart to do that.
Then I tackled the few inches of water I'd found in my spare tire well. I've been fighting that on and off for years and still haven't figured out where it's coming from. Managed to empty that between clearing the drain pinhole, bailing, and a towel, and I'm leaving it propped open, with all the car windows also open, to dry overnight.
Started the car to run to the auto parts store and get a new cabin air filter, so long as I was fixing things up, and discovered that I tripped an airbag error code. Most likely it was because I had previously started the car (to check the diverter motor function) with the passenger airbag disable button unplugged. So I finally ordered myself a low end computer code talker (OBD) that I should be able to use to reset that error. I'd love to get the expensive one that I could actually use to tweak my car software (and maybe make my glow plugs keep coming on up to maybe 75 deg instead of 50 and making the car crank forever all summer), but they're quite pricy and I'm not positive that's even one of the things I could tweak.
At least the air filter replacement was dead easy. And my car windows didn't fog up at all when driving to the auto parts store in the rain!
Then, at some point in the several times I tried to get the glove box in and out, I discovered that instead of pulling the electrical connector off my tire pressure monitoring reset switch, I pulled the whole back off, and lost the spring inside. Spent a while trying to find that and determine how quick I could get another switch, but then I learned that the switch for turning off my traction control is basically the same model, and I use that very rarely. So I pulled it out (was in an already-removed panel), got the spring out, which was actually a rubber button type of spring with little hard bits to make a momentary contact on the tiny circuit board in the back of the switch. Got the tire pressure switch rebuilt, and then promptly found its spring on the garage floor. -_- Put it in the traction control switch, so they're both good again, though the tire pressure one might try to pop out the back of the glove box again.
Put the glove box back again, took a couple minutes to clean up the grotty bits of center console that I'd disassembled, and got everything put back together. Then realized I had 3 screws left and panicked for a minute. Finally realized I'd missed one inside the glove box, and forgotten to screw down one of the console pieces, so had to take a couple things back apart to do that.
Then I tackled the few inches of water I'd found in my spare tire well. I've been fighting that on and off for years and still haven't figured out where it's coming from. Managed to empty that between clearing the drain pinhole, bailing, and a towel, and I'm leaving it propped open, with all the car windows also open, to dry overnight.
Started the car to run to the auto parts store and get a new cabin air filter, so long as I was fixing things up, and discovered that I tripped an airbag error code. Most likely it was because I had previously started the car (to check the diverter motor function) with the passenger airbag disable button unplugged. So I finally ordered myself a low end computer code talker (OBD) that I should be able to use to reset that error. I'd love to get the expensive one that I could actually use to tweak my car software (and maybe make my glow plugs keep coming on up to maybe 75 deg instead of 50 and making the car crank forever all summer), but they're quite pricy and I'm not positive that's even one of the things I could tweak.
At least the air filter replacement was dead easy. And my car windows didn't fog up at all when driving to the auto parts store in the rain!
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On Tuesday night, my migraine came with a side of blackouts. Tiny, few second blips, and extreme vertigo. I took meds and went to bed. Wednesday morning I still had the migraine, but it didn’t seem as bad as the night before, so I logged into work. Then the blackouts and the extreme vertigo came back. My insurance no longer has an on-call nurse line, but options of different telehealth companies, which I don’t trust. So we went to urgent care, but they couldn’t do the tests they felt were necessary because the software they use was having outages. I won a trip in an ambulance to a hospital; over the course of six hours I had an EKG and a CAT scan, the results of which were that everything was fine with me, it was probably an atypical migraine, and I should make an appointment with my neurologist to discuss things.
I came home and slept for 12 hours. Everything seems okay, but I’m resting and being very aware of how I feel.
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lil_m_moses Sep. 2nd, 2026 10:49 pm)
I feel like it won't really count as 2 days off after I worked 39 hours in the first 3 days of the week, will probably need to at least check in tomorrow to ensure there aren't questions or issues with the 15 or 20 invoices I shipped this evening, will feel guilty about not getting meeting notes out for 3 customer meetings, have another 6-8 meetings to look forward to on Tuesday, and will be spending much of one of those "off" days taking Mom to 2 doctor's appointments (and lunch).
Nevertheless, I have hopes and plans that include:
- fix the cabin air recirc valve in my car
- prep kiddo for school starting Tuesday
- get a haircut and then refresh my blueness
- maybe install the LED undercabinet lights in the kitchen (that I bought back in December)
- maybe go see a movie or two; coyotes and spiders are on my radar
- actually talk to my husband instead of poring over work nonsense
Nevertheless, I have hopes and plans that include:
- fix the cabin air recirc valve in my car
- prep kiddo for school starting Tuesday
- get a haircut and then refresh my blueness
- maybe install the LED undercabinet lights in the kitchen (that I bought back in December)
- maybe go see a movie or two; coyotes and spiders are on my radar
- actually talk to my husband instead of poring over work nonsense
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